Marlue
Sorry to hear your family thinks your lazy. If they only knew how much we want to feel good physically and mentally and do all kinds of activities to feel useful, productive and able to enjoy ourselves. I have a lot of tummy problems because i am depressed then i get more depressed because i feel physically sick, a horrible vicious cycle. Best wishes to you .
Marlie

I got accused of being lazy, too. Then I found the Human Design system. I found out that I was born with low energy. Nothing wrong with me like my parents thought. They were both high energy human beings and did not understand me. Most people have energy, but my energy comes and goes and often depends upon who I am spending time with. It is natural for me to be attracted to high energy people as they 'give' me higher energy. But I will never have enough. Pacing myself every day and not being hard on myself for not having enough energy helps me.