Lost a loved one to murder
I lost the love of my life to murder almost 20 years ago. Is there anyone out there that can relate at all? I just wish I could find someone that can relate to what I have experienced. Tim was the love of my life; my soul mate. I believe I had been born to love him and did not believe I could survive without him. My Dad died suddenly less than a year after Tim was murdered so I feel that compounded the situation. No closure; no acceptance. Still wish he was here. Thank you.
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Hi Piglit. Thanks. I tend to isolate. Thank you for thinking of me.
Thank you Anonymous. You have spoken truth. My sadness has defined me for so long. Unhealthy, I know. I do not think your words are mean...they were written with concern and caring. Thank you.
Thank you.
I am sorry about your Mom. Death is so hard. I remember wanting the pain to go away. Hang in there Joe.
Thanks China.
Sometimes the feelings pop up to the surface. This week is better than last week. Thanks. How are you?
Dear,
When memories pop up try to think of happy one's not the tragic ones.
Easier said than done I know
Piglit tells me to distract myself and it does help.
Hugs,
Rox
Thank YOU for taking it all the way I meant it...I know what its like to feel so swallowed up in grief that you wonder if there is even a tunnel to see the light from!! But there IS, Viv...there really is!! I am sure you are a WONDERFUL person, filled with love and others would so much like to get in on that!! Its __OK__ to Let Go... I have had to learn that lesson myself more than once. Just intend to find a few Little Things every day to be happy about --and it will start growing. Be EASY on yourself --no time limits...Be as kind to yourselfr as I am sure you are to others!
Sending you love and a big hug and wishing you JOY!!
Dear Viv,
Just checking in to see how you're doing. I think of you often and I hope that you are allowing yourself to finally heal and seeking happiness.
Hugs,
Rox
Hi Viv, just to let you know that your in my thoughts here anytime if you need me Piglit