Hi @lah, I added your discussion to the Caregivers group as well. I believe there are other caregivers here who are all too familiar with the emotional side of advanced cancer – for both of you.
Lah, you describe the situation as feeling like a whirlwind and that you feel totally helpless. Can you tell me a bit more about those 2 things? Has it been the treatments, tests, and in and out of the hospital that has been a whirlwind? Or has it been the results and decisions you've had to make? Or all of the above?
How does your husband feel about continuing treatment?