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Grief in the Time of Covid-19

Caregivers | Last Active: Jun 29, 2020 | Replies (26)

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@lioness

@fiesty76 I,m so sorry to hear of the passing of your dear friend.I was with my husband when he died.We had talked before of what he wanted so I carried out his wishes.Over and over I told him I
Loved him ,held his hand prayed for his relief . Cried silently Im so glad her guy was with her this will help him it did me in the weeks to come .It's been 20 years and I remember the good times at first I didn't it took me 9 months to feel better emotionaly you ever forget Dec 22 that's why I still don't celebrate Christmas .It will take you time but keep doing what you're doing 😊❣️ he will need you to get through the funeral.We are all here for you send me a p.m anytime

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Ah, @lioness, how wonderful that you could be with your husband when he died and that he could hear your words and know the clasp of your hand. What a great helpmate you had to have been to him because you continue helping others now that he isn't with you. Although the Hospice nurse had told me my sister would slip into a coma before she died, she was lucid and we talked much of the night before she died the following day. I continued talking after she went into the coma even though she became non responsive. Had heard that sound was the last to go. My friend's guy and I had a meaningful conversation by phone yesterday and I can only hope it helped him as much as it did me. He expressed some of the same feelings I'd shared in my post here, especially about the unreality of it all even though he'd been there with her. Thank you for your kind pm offer, too. Right now, I'm taking things moment to moment.

@fiesty76 I wanted to send some pictures of my garbage garden beets in one onion celery surprised but glad I also put 8n a sweet potato and reg potato that was a good idea 😊