COPD and Can’t Commit to Quitting Smoking

Posted by peacelovejoy @peacelovejoy, Jul 16, 2023

I was diagnosed with COPD a year ago and have made efforts to stop smoking but I keep buying cigarettes. I have quit for a couple of days at a time and keep going back. I don’t want to let go of smoking because I can’t handle the stresses in my life. I know continuing to smoke will make my life worse but I feel like I just don’t care in the one hand and to no avail keep telling myself I’m going to be even more miserable if I don’t stop. Has anyone else gone through this?

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I am still smoking. I've tried various prescription meds. Antidepressants. Apps. Books. Websites. Facebook groups. Nicotine replacement (gum, patches, toothpicks .. ) Acupuncture. Pneumonia. Meditation. Hypnotherapy. I did quit, probably 12 years ago.. actually several times.. as recently as 3 months ago.. and here I am. I think, for me, it's a matter of just saying no - and I have to get up and do something - and don't answer the door when a heavy smoker comes to visit. I have thrown away all smoking paraphernalia. I've smoked right down to nothing; then get that anxiety that I don't have any. It's psychological, I'm sure. I think I just need to quit. Sunshine and fresh air helps immensely.

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@blhardin When I first quit I had to avoid going into the gas station so I wouldn’t see all the cigarettes behind the cashier. I just paid at the pump. It gets better the longer you quit.

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You need both hands to care . It takes determination to beat an addiction . It sounds like a no win. . The circle , stressed about smoking, and smoking to hide the stress . Maybe try stressing over no smoking . Try hard with no smoking for 3 days . Chew gum , even nicotine gum . ( I loved the nicotine gum . ) Tasted horrible but every time I had an urge , I grabbed the gum . Succeed for three days . Then for me , it was try to space out the gum . Try to get the cigarette smell out of everything in my life . ( more gum). I would busy myself with a task . Take a shower . Try to get off the nicotine gum . That gum was the most important thing to me . It is cheaper than cigarettes , does’nt put smoke in your lungs . Doesn’t make an ashy mess . That is how I quit smoking . I don’t crave cigarettes . But right now , this instant , I am craving nicotine gum. Yum yum. Blessed Be , Crystalena. ( smoked cigarettes for 39 years)

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Please please please stop smoking- it’s what has made you sick and it will make you sicker until it kills you. You will feel so much better because it is just cutting your life expectancy and I know because I smoked for 50 years- 2-3 packs a day and when I was diagnosed with stage four lung cancer in 2016 that cured my smoking but most importantly do the math- in 2016 they gave me 2 weeks to live and it’s 2026 now, but I wouldn’t be here now if I didn’t quit right then and there. I don’t know you but you seem like good people to me and I think (and probably many others) the world would be a better place with you in it. Please stop now before it’s too late. Best wishes, Bob

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Please please please stop smoking- it’s what has made you sick and it will make you sicker until it kills you. You will feel so much better because it is just cutting your life expectancy and I know because I smoked for 50 years- 2-3 packs a day and when I was diagnosed with stage four lung cancer in 2016 that cured my smoking but most importantly do the math- in 2016 they gave me 2 weeks to live and it’s 2026 now, but I wouldn’t be here now if I didn’t quit right then and there. I don’t know you but you seem like good people to me and I think (and probably many others) the world would be a better place with you in it. Please stop now before it’s too late. Best wishes, Bob

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I'm having a rough time quitting. I've been smoking for 50yrs.

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I’m currently reading Allen Carr’s book Easy Way to Stop Smoking. It’s really helping me get a different perspective on quitting smoking and why the WILLPOWER method has never worked for me. He encourages people not to quit until they have finished the whole book but I’m sure it would help someone who has already quit. Good luck!

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All o learned from the book was writing down pros and cons of smoking which helped me. I enjoyed his book. Was surprised to learn that he died of cancer about 10 years ago

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