@ginnysnow you just cannot prepare for everything in your life, otherwise life would become boring. You'd know what was down the road and be prepared at every step. How can you grow unless you explore what you don't know about life? We all try to plan ahead as we get smarter but bumps are part of life. As one poster said Murphy's law always has a hand in it. So as you stumble and pick yourself up and learn what happened so you don't stumble again. Think big and explore life.