Wow a lot to digest. First off the CRC community sounds wonderful. I had never even heard of such a place. There must be a income requirement for admission. Would love to know what that is. Also I have heard of attorneys named as executors of wills. My 2 adult children also live 3000 miles away and I question whether they would help out if needed. How did we raise these children to be so indifferent? I don't have any answers.