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Caregiver for spouse with MCI (Mild cognitive impairment)
Caregivers: Dementia | Last Active: Apr 17 10:36pm | Replies (136)Comment receiving replies
Try to share my experiences and hope it can help one way or another;
Talk nicely to your spouse and try to write the check in all details to pay the bills but ask him to co-sign at the end. This will have you asking your Banker to issue you NEW CHECKBOOK effective only if both of you signed that CHECK.
Another way:: If you have a trusted children to handle all your payments - - - so that you and your husband will turn over financial payments via this system. - - - have 3 of you go see your Banker to work out the details.
I am a caregiver myself; i often lost my cool and patience too. But I learn how to extend my "SORRY" to others!! That Help me at least!!! So, gook luck to all of you!.
Replies to "Try to share my experiences and hope it can help one way or another; Talk nicely..."
Many thanks for your eMail. Lately, my wife & I have agreed to have our
daughter fully in charge of our 4 quarterly payments on our 3 routines
accounts. Time has come to let family member take the work on their hands
but talks &interacts frequently to each other on the matters. Trust & open
mind are the keys. Good years to come your way always. Bye. ksl.
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Thanks for the idea about having one of the children write the checks. He might go for that! Bless you and hope all is well with you and yours.