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Prostate Cancer | Last Active: Jul 20 9:03am | Replies (52)

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Oh man…welcome to the most difficult decision you will ever have to make - with no backsies!
First of all there are no wrong decisions - outcomes for survival are the same. Both treatments have side effects so basically, pick your poison - as distasteful as that sounds.
At age 70 surgery is certainly a viable option but you better be sure you select an excellent surgeon - open surgery in these times seems a bit medieval but I am not a surgeon so perhaps there are reasons - but THAT is very invasive and a longer recovery than a robotic procedure.
OTOH, there are many options with radiation and not all of them take months - some just about 2 weeks.
However, with G8 you’d probably be placed on ADT for 6-12 months - longer if your RO feels the need.
I know I probably have not helped you much but after living in this PCa world for over 6 yrs (surgery and then SRT with ADT) I’ve come to realize that even though ALL OF IT sucks you do manage to get through whatever brilliant decision you think you’ve made; and once you’ve made it, embrace it, put your blinders on and charge forward…NEVER, EVER look back!! Best,
Phil

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❝NEVER, EVER look back!!❞

Yep, you can't drive with your eyes locked on the rearview mirror.

Maybe if I hadn't been diagnosed with metastatic PCa and hospitalised in 2021, I would have died in a midair collision in my small plane, or fallen off a ladder, or who knows what else.

You have to make the most of the timeline you're on, because it's impossible to know what the others would really have been like. As they joke about emergencies in aviation, "keep flying the plane until all the pieces stop moving." 😉