depression and anger over being used by brother that took all my money did not repay any

HI Ann, just was reading at what a tough time you have been put through, its always hard to not be angry when you have been wronged and there other party does not even appear sorry specially a brother.... I am kinda new to anger issues but the one I was angry at died when he crashed into me, so I just held in the anger and it really messed with my head, but then I found this site and its amazing how helpful a good venting can be, Me and the friends I have been making don't judge and we have all suffered in some way, I wish there was something I could do I understand about your lose of guns to, this year on my birthday even my house was robbed and all my guns were taking along with pretty much all my favorite possessions.... That was feb 5th, 2012 and even with no body getting caught, and no renters insurance and was on disability checks just getting by, it was hard and thats when I got angry even at the police for not doing anything to protect my stuff.... Besides one gun that was given to me by my grandfather before he died, all the stuff taken was just stuff, and I have actually found a way to be thankful, but the hardest part is getting over the fact someone took advantage of you, bettered themselves while making you suffer... I don't know how they can live with that especially to family but you gotta just find a way to forgive him, not for his sake and he don't even need to know but for yourself you gotta just move past it I know thats tough trust me I still working on it, but the anger your holding onto doesn't hurt him just you. Well this is just what works for me, just find someway to forgive but you can not forget and ignore, it will just keep happening. just fyi Video evidence is soo effective even with governing officials, I now hit record on my cell phone if I feel uncomfortable around people that have questionable morals, but I am not saying thats very "healthy" but it sure makes me feel safer. I hope relief comes your way!!

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Hi Ann, here comes some more love and a hug for you! Please do contact Legal Aide...or...ANY lawyer that is willing to work on a contingency basis. I know what you must be going through...being torn up because this is your BROTHER, for goodness sake, but Ann, it really is necessary that you honor YOURSELF... you WILL find the strength... it will be there. Keep in touch.
Just say to yourself: Spirit, I WANT to forgive even though I don't 'feel' like it... don't expect to FEEL like it...that is asking too much right now... Just tell Spirit you WANT to do what is best for your Highest Good...and all those concerned. It will happen Ann... even though it may not always FEEL like it... You are not doing ANYTHING WRONG ...you sound VERY normal to me! 🙂 Plus, You sound like a wonderful, lovely person!

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Hi Ann, here comes some more love and a hug for you! Please do contact Legal Aide...or...ANY lawyer that is willing to work on a contingency basis. I know what you must be going through...being torn up because this is your BROTHER, for goodness sake, but Ann, it really is necessary that you honor YOURSELF... you WILL find the strength... it will be there. Keep in touch.
Just say to yourself: Spirit, I WANT to forgive even though I don't 'feel' like it... don't expect to FEEL like it...that is asking too much right now... Just tell Spirit you WANT to do what is best for your Highest Good...and all those concerned. It will happen Ann... even though it may not always FEEL like it... You are not doing ANYTHING WRONG ...you sound VERY normal to me! 🙂 Plus, You sound like a wonderful, lovely person!

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HI Ann, just was reading at what a tough time you have been put through, its always hard to not be angry when you have been wronged and there other party does not even appear sorry specially a brother.... I am kinda new to anger issues but the one I was angry at died when he crashed into me, so I just held in the anger and it really messed with my head, but then I found this site and its amazing how helpful a good venting can be, Me and the friends I have been making don't judge and we have all suffered in some way, I wish there was something I could do I understand about your lose of guns to, this year on my birthday even my house was robbed and all my guns were taking along with pretty much all my favorite possessions.... That was feb 5th, 2012 and even with no body getting caught, and no renters insurance and was on disability checks just getting by, it was hard and thats when I got angry even at the police for not doing anything to protect my stuff.... Besides one gun that was given to me by my grandfather before he died, all the stuff taken was just stuff, and I have actually found a way to be thankful, but the hardest part is getting over the fact someone took advantage of you, bettered themselves while making you suffer... I don't know how they can live with that especially to family but you gotta just find a way to forgive him, not for his sake and he don't even need to know but for yourself you gotta just move past it I know thats tough trust me I still working on it, but the anger your holding onto doesn't hurt him just you. Well this is just what works for me, just find someway to forgive but you can not forget and ignore, it will just keep happening. just fyi Video evidence is soo effective even with governing officials, I now hit record on my cell phone if I feel uncomfortable around people that have questionable morals, but I am not saying thats very "healthy" but it sure makes me feel safer. I hope relief comes your way!!

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HI Ann, just was reading at what a tough time you have been put through, its always hard to not be angry when you have been wronged and there other party does not even appear sorry specially a brother.... I am kinda new to anger issues but the one I was angry at died when he crashed into me, so I just held in the anger and it really messed with my head, but then I found this site and its amazing how helpful a good venting can be, Me and the friends I have been making don't judge and we have all suffered in some way, I wish there was something I could do I understand about your lose of guns to, this year on my birthday even my house was robbed and all my guns were taking along with pretty much all my favorite possessions.... That was feb 5th, 2012 and even with no body getting caught, and no renters insurance and was on disability checks just getting by, it was hard and thats when I got angry even at the police for not doing anything to protect my stuff.... Besides one gun that was given to me by my grandfather before he died, all the stuff taken was just stuff, and I have actually found a way to be thankful, but the hardest part is getting over the fact someone took advantage of you, bettered themselves while making you suffer... I don't know how they can live with that especially to family but you gotta just find a way to forgive him, not for his sake and he don't even need to know but for yourself you gotta just move past it I know thats tough trust me I still working on it, but the anger your holding onto doesn't hurt him just you. Well this is just what works for me, just find someway to forgive but you can not forget and ignore, it will just keep happening. just fyi Video evidence is soo effective even with governing officials, I now hit record on my cell phone if I feel uncomfortable around people that have questionable morals, but I am not saying thats very "healthy" but it sure makes me feel safer. I hope relief comes your way!!

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Dear Ann I am so sorry to hear of your misfortune. Unfortunately; your kindness was abused.you have to try to let it go because the anger will eat you up and cause depression..I realize that this is hard to do but you must take care of yourself..you may have to detach from this relationship. Please keep intouch with me as I truly care and would like to help you. I am a good sounding board and it sounds like that's what you need right now. Do you have any friends to talk with that you trust? Sincerely. Jodi

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HI Ann, just was reading at what a tough time you have been put through, its always hard to not be angry when you have been wronged and there other party does not even appear sorry specially a brother.... I am kinda new to anger issues but the one I was angry at died when he crashed into me, so I just held in the anger and it really messed with my head, but then I found this site and its amazing how helpful a good venting can be, Me and the friends I have been making don't judge and we have all suffered in some way, I wish there was something I could do I understand about your lose of guns to, this year on my birthday even my house was robbed and all my guns were taking along with pretty much all my favorite possessions.... That was feb 5th, 2012 and even with no body getting caught, and no renters insurance and was on disability checks just getting by, it was hard and thats when I got angry even at the police for not doing anything to protect my stuff.... Besides one gun that was given to me by my grandfather before he died, all the stuff taken was just stuff, and I have actually found a way to be thankful, but the hardest part is getting over the fact someone took advantage of you, bettered themselves while making you suffer... I don't know how they can live with that especially to family but you gotta just find a way to forgive him, not for his sake and he don't even need to know but for yourself you gotta just move past it I know thats tough trust me I still working on it, but the anger your holding onto doesn't hurt him just you. Well this is just what works for me, just find someway to forgive but you can not forget and ignore, it will just keep happening. just fyi Video evidence is soo effective even with governing officials, I now hit record on my cell phone if I feel uncomfortable around people that have questionable morals, but I am not saying thats very "healthy" but it sure makes me feel safer. I hope relief comes your way!!

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