Lost a loved one to murder

Posted by Viv @viv, May 14, 2012

I lost the love of my life to murder almost 20 years ago. Is there anyone out there that can relate at all? I just wish I could find someone that can relate to what I have experienced. Tim was the love of my life; my soul mate. I believe I had been born to love him and did not believe I could survive without him. My Dad died suddenly less than a year after Tim was murdered so I feel that compounded the situation. No closure; no acceptance. Still wish he was here. Thank you.

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Roxie43 | @roxie43 | Jun 2, 2012

Hello Dear,
You have also been in my thoughts. Survival's guilt can cause a lot of inner turmoil. It's been two decades and he would want you to love again. You can still cherish and love hin but please don't deny yourself a little normalcy.
Hugs,
Rox