Living with Prostate Cancer: Meet others & introduce yourself

Welcome to the Prostate Cancer group on Mayo Clinic Connect.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet others living with prostate cancer or caring for someone with prostate cancer. Let's learn from each other and share stories about living well with cancer, coping with the challenges and offering tips.

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Let's start with introductions. When were you diagnosed with prostate cancer? What treatments did you have? Tips to share?

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@tinker

Hi, my name is Tim. I have not been diagnosed. At this stage I’m trying to understand my diagnostic options. A routine physical, and a follow up turned up a slightly elevated PSA, around 5.3.

I am told a biopsy is needed, and don’t know yet what they are recommending. I see the three most common methods, and believe I have a preference, but not sure how much luck I’ll have steering the process. Am I wrong to show a preference to transpereneal approach?

If it is inappropriate for me to post here, let me know.

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@tconama Yes, it's important to not waste time but it's also important to not treat this like a panic situation. Be thorough in deciding on a treatment decision if you have a positive biopsy . I had advanced intermediate prostate cancer and I got a prompt referral to a radiation oncologist. He allayed my fears about the cancer and told me that it wouldn't change my lifespan, if treated. I had 5- 35 minute CyberKnife sessions and 4 year later my PSA is 0.2 with no ill-effects. Best wishes!

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@waynen

Hi Tim, you might check Mayo's website on transpereneal approach. Some of their doctors have discontinued using the transrectal approach. Your doctor may not be able to do it. If I had a choice, it's the approach I would take.

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That’s how I started on this thread. Was first looking at active studies. One was about this approach. I’ve got an appointment this Friday at Mayo for a consult. Depending on what I learn there, I will pursue at Mayo, or fall back to the, now already scheduled, MRI, followed by a transrectal approach.

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@scruffy1

@tconama Yes, it's important to not waste time but it's also important to not treat this like a panic situation. Be thorough in deciding on a treatment decision if you have a positive biopsy . I had advanced intermediate prostate cancer and I got a prompt referral to a radiation oncologist. He allayed my fears about the cancer and told me that it wouldn't change my lifespan, if treated. I had 5- 35 minute CyberKnife sessions and 4 year later my PSA is 0.2 with no ill-effects. Best wishes!

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What good fortune. I wish all stories would go that way.

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@tinker

That’s how I started on this thread. Was first looking at active studies. One was about this approach. I’ve got an appointment this Friday at Mayo for a consult. Depending on what I learn there, I will pursue at Mayo, or fall back to the, now already scheduled, MRI, followed by a transrectal approach.

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Well good luck with everything. Since they are doing an MRI guided biopsy I believe you are in very good hands.

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@tinker

What good fortune. I wish all stories would go that way.

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I've attached a short video for anyone researching CyberKnife:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xadsVquQiR0

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Hello, all. I was diagnosed with low grade PC in 2015. PSA was about 5.7, I think. Gleason was 3+4. Urologist supported active surveillance strategy. Due to several factors, I missed a couple of follow up appointments, so my surveillance was more like passive avoidance. Late last fall, my general practitioner ordered a PSA. It was 9.1. Urologist asked for another PSA test and it was 9. Digital exam showed some evidence of abnormality.

I am waiting for the next steps. The Urologist ordered a bone scan just to be safe. That was clear. Now, he has me considering focused radiation vs. robotic removal. Since it has been 6 years since a biopsy, I wonder whether that should be done again.

A good friend went through the 40 visits of radiation for his followed by Lupron. He thinks this is a better option than the removal. But I have a long history of ulcerative colitis and I have read a couple of articles that suggest those with IBD can have complications from the radiation. All of this is so confusing, and I'm not sure what to do.

It turns out that I several of my friends have had to deal with PC. One with chemo (his cancer had spread), one with robotic surgery, and one with the radiation.

I look forward to any insights that i might gain from reading the comments on this site.

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@mbartosch

Hello, all. I was diagnosed with low grade PC in 2015. PSA was about 5.7, I think. Gleason was 3+4. Urologist supported active surveillance strategy. Due to several factors, I missed a couple of follow up appointments, so my surveillance was more like passive avoidance. Late last fall, my general practitioner ordered a PSA. It was 9.1. Urologist asked for another PSA test and it was 9. Digital exam showed some evidence of abnormality.

I am waiting for the next steps. The Urologist ordered a bone scan just to be safe. That was clear. Now, he has me considering focused radiation vs. robotic removal. Since it has been 6 years since a biopsy, I wonder whether that should be done again.

A good friend went through the 40 visits of radiation for his followed by Lupron. He thinks this is a better option than the removal. But I have a long history of ulcerative colitis and I have read a couple of articles that suggest those with IBD can have complications from the radiation. All of this is so confusing, and I'm not sure what to do.

It turns out that I several of my friends have had to deal with PC. One with chemo (his cancer had spread), one with robotic surgery, and one with the radiation.

I look forward to any insights that i might gain from reading the comments on this site.

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HI,
Let me share my experience, which may have no bearing on your decision process. At 47 I had a PSA of 7, which suggested surveillance. By the next year it rose to 9 (rule of thumb is PSA should not be higher than the 1st digit of your age). And I was only 48 so an unreasonable reading would have been 4 to 6. Thus began biopsies every 6 months which were negative. By the time I was 50 the biopsies were every 3 months and my PSA was now 14. The last biopsy was positive in one sample, so I went ahead with the RPA surgery. The work-up included full body scan before the surgery. The cancer was contained within the gland and no lymph nodes were positive.
I am now 75 and PSA still below below .1. Looking back, by the time I was scheduled for the last biopsy I was feeling like a hunted animal, and told my wife that I wasn’t going to have any more biopsies. I insisted that the doctor was a hunter and I was the game.
Some things to consider: 1) Any history of urinary infection? This can affect PSA readings. 2) Do you hard exercise on a bike which can also aggravate the prostate gland? 3) Do you have a genetic history where a parent or grandparent had known prostate cancer? In my case all my relatives Dad and uncle were diagnosed with elevated PSA, but died from other causes.
Deciding which coarse of treatment is difficult due to provider bias. If the urologist is a surgeon, then surgery is the recommendation and if they are not then radiation may be the recommendation. Remember my data points were in 1995 and I suspect there have been improvements in treatment. Again, at the time of my treatment the post surgical problems of impotence and incontinence were the same after 2 years as far as the number reported. When it comes to treating cancer with an unknown rate of spread I believe that treatment should not be avoided. I can appreciate the roller coaster ride you are on as you face this very difficult decision. Best wishes, Keith

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@mbartosch

Hello, all. I was diagnosed with low grade PC in 2015. PSA was about 5.7, I think. Gleason was 3+4. Urologist supported active surveillance strategy. Due to several factors, I missed a couple of follow up appointments, so my surveillance was more like passive avoidance. Late last fall, my general practitioner ordered a PSA. It was 9.1. Urologist asked for another PSA test and it was 9. Digital exam showed some evidence of abnormality.

I am waiting for the next steps. The Urologist ordered a bone scan just to be safe. That was clear. Now, he has me considering focused radiation vs. robotic removal. Since it has been 6 years since a biopsy, I wonder whether that should be done again.

A good friend went through the 40 visits of radiation for his followed by Lupron. He thinks this is a better option than the removal. But I have a long history of ulcerative colitis and I have read a couple of articles that suggest those with IBD can have complications from the radiation. All of this is so confusing, and I'm not sure what to do.

It turns out that I several of my friends have had to deal with PC. One with chemo (his cancer had spread), one with robotic surgery, and one with the radiation.

I look forward to any insights that i might gain from reading the comments on this site.

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I strongly suggest you get Robert Marckini's book: "You Can Beat Prostate Cancer And You Don't Need Surgery to Do It." Make sure it is the 2020 edition. Take control of your plans yourself. Do not take the first counsel you get from a medical professional, deferring to his or her expertise. Do your research, and then decide on the course of action best for your circumstances. That is what I did and am happy I followed Marckini's advice. Best of luck.

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@mbartosch

Hello, all. I was diagnosed with low grade PC in 2015. PSA was about 5.7, I think. Gleason was 3+4. Urologist supported active surveillance strategy. Due to several factors, I missed a couple of follow up appointments, so my surveillance was more like passive avoidance. Late last fall, my general practitioner ordered a PSA. It was 9.1. Urologist asked for another PSA test and it was 9. Digital exam showed some evidence of abnormality.

I am waiting for the next steps. The Urologist ordered a bone scan just to be safe. That was clear. Now, he has me considering focused radiation vs. robotic removal. Since it has been 6 years since a biopsy, I wonder whether that should be done again.

A good friend went through the 40 visits of radiation for his followed by Lupron. He thinks this is a better option than the removal. But I have a long history of ulcerative colitis and I have read a couple of articles that suggest those with IBD can have complications from the radiation. All of this is so confusing, and I'm not sure what to do.

It turns out that I several of my friends have had to deal with PC. One with chemo (his cancer had spread), one with robotic surgery, and one with the radiation.

I look forward to any insights that i might gain from reading the comments on this site.

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I can understand your dilemma. It's been 2.5 years since my diagnosis. I had a PSA of 4.9 at the time of my biopsy. My urologist found a sample with a 4+4 Gleason score. That's considered high risk. My treatment was at Mayo and there was a big difference between treatment for high risk from moderate. If I were you, I would have another biopsy to determine the level of the cancer.

I chose Proton Beam radiation because it will cause less tissue damage. The main difference between treatment for moderate and high risk is the use of Antigen Deprivation Therapy like Lupron. There actually are alternatives to Lupron now that might be better, including a pill form that acts faster and shortens time of recovery.

The Lupron was used to shrink the prostrate and kill any cells that might be floating around your system. What caught my attention the most was the research that said my chance for survival improved from 60 to 80 percent with the use of Lupron with the radiation. I met a number of guys at Mayo who had moderate risk cancer who didn't take Lupron. That's a big deal not having to take Lupron. The side effects of Lupron are bearable, but if you don't have to go through it, I wouldn't.

Good luck through your journey.

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