Anal fistula

Hi,I sent post abot 4months ago concerning my condition,but got no reply. 17 yers a go i woke up and dicovered thet i cant move my left leg properly,on checking out i discovered a potion on my left butock was hard and painful. I visited the hospital and have to undergo surgery three times and the wound refused to heal. Since then i have pus sometimes blood comming out from the wound, am in pain most part of the day,embarased most time as a resul of stain on my skirt,drop out of collage becouse i cant seat for a long time. I am 41yrs now and single as a result of this.I still believe that one day help will come my way for proper/final solution.Is any one suffering the samething, been cured or have solution to this strange illness?. chima.